life is filled with regrets. ask anyone around you what their regrets are and they usually have no difficulty coming up with many items on their “regret list.” and for some reason our twenties are ripe for a field of regrets.
人生总是充满遗憾。问问你周围的人他们有没有遗憾的事情,他们会轻而易举的列出一大堆“遗憾清单”。由于某些原因,20多岁最容易犯错的年纪。
perhaps it’s because as we get older we look back on that period of adulthood as the height of freedom and autonomy. as move into middle age, we look back and wish that we had made better choices and taken more opportunities. here’s a list of things that we regret not doing in our 20s.
也许是因为随着年龄的增长,当我们再次回顾那段时光,会发现那是一段充满自由和独立的时光。随着我们步入中年,我们经常希望:要是我们能再有更多选择的机会多好啊!以下就列举了一些如果我们在20来岁没有做就会让我们后悔的事情:
1. travelling more
多旅行
i regret not travelling more, and so does nearly everyone that i have asked. before kids, and mortgages and marriages, when our commitments and expenses were lower, the opportunities for travel were much greater, but for some reason many of us thought we’d always have time for travel later.
我后悔没有到更多的地方去旅行,而且几乎我问过的每个人都会这样说。在有孩子之前、在抵押贷款和结婚之前,在我们需要承担的责任和花销较少时,正是旅游的大好机,但是由于种种原因,我们总觉得我们以后会有更多的时间去旅行。
we dreamed of visiting the pyramids of egypt, surfing off the hawaiian coast, dining at a parisian café, drinking espresso in rome, trekking through the rainforest, and so much more. sadly, many of us never made these journeys and the opportunity passed us by.
我们梦想过去埃及看金字塔,在夏威夷海边冲浪,在巴黎的咖啡馆共进晚餐,在罗马品尝香浓的咖啡,徒步穿越热带雨林等等诸如此类的计划。可悲的是,大部分人都没有付诸行动,只是看着机会白白溜走。
2. investing early
早投资
how many times have we kicked ourselves for not starting our 401ks,in our twenties, for not putting our excess cash in long term investments, for not investing in our future early. no matter how much we try, we can never get back the head start that we missed. playing catch up in our 40’s and 50’s is very difficult.
多少次回想我们都恨不得踢自己一脚:为什么不在20来岁就开始401k(小编注:美国的一种养老金制度)计划,为什么没有将多余的现金用于长期投资,为什么没有早早的为我们未来投资。不管我们再怎么努力,错过的时光都不会重来了。等到我们四五十岁的时候再奋起直追已为时已晚了。
人生总是充满遗憾。问问你周围的人他们有没有遗憾的事情,他们会轻而易举的列出一大堆“遗憾清单”。由于某些原因,20多岁最容易犯错的年纪。
perhaps it’s because as we get older we look back on that period of adulthood as the height of freedom and autonomy. as move into middle age, we look back and wish that we had made better choices and taken more opportunities. here’s a list of things that we regret not doing in our 20s.
也许是因为随着年龄的增长,当我们再次回顾那段时光,会发现那是一段充满自由和独立的时光。随着我们步入中年,我们经常希望:要是我们能再有更多选择的机会多好啊!以下就列举了一些如果我们在20来岁没有做就会让我们后悔的事情:
1. travelling more
多旅行
i regret not travelling more, and so does nearly everyone that i have asked. before kids, and mortgages and marriages, when our commitments and expenses were lower, the opportunities for travel were much greater, but for some reason many of us thought we’d always have time for travel later.
我后悔没有到更多的地方去旅行,而且几乎我问过的每个人都会这样说。在有孩子之前、在抵押贷款和结婚之前,在我们需要承担的责任和花销较少时,正是旅游的大好机,但是由于种种原因,我们总觉得我们以后会有更多的时间去旅行。
we dreamed of visiting the pyramids of egypt, surfing off the hawaiian coast, dining at a parisian café, drinking espresso in rome, trekking through the rainforest, and so much more. sadly, many of us never made these journeys and the opportunity passed us by.
我们梦想过去埃及看金字塔,在夏威夷海边冲浪,在巴黎的咖啡馆共进晚餐,在罗马品尝香浓的咖啡,徒步穿越热带雨林等等诸如此类的计划。可悲的是,大部分人都没有付诸行动,只是看着机会白白溜走。
2. investing early
早投资
how many times have we kicked ourselves for not starting our 401ks,in our twenties, for not putting our excess cash in long term investments, for not investing in our future early. no matter how much we try, we can never get back the head start that we missed. playing catch up in our 40’s and 50’s is very difficult.
多少次回想我们都恨不得踢自己一脚:为什么不在20来岁就开始401k(小编注:美国的一种养老金制度)计划,为什么没有将多余的现金用于长期投资,为什么没有早早的为我们未来投资。不管我们再怎么努力,错过的时光都不会重来了。等到我们四五十岁的时候再奋起直追已为时已晚了。