Ricky Martin on being a single dad: I can't bring different men home every day 'We're all men. It's in our DNA to go for it' Ricky Martin has opened up about how parenthood has affected his dating life. The openly gay singer is father to twins Valentino and Matteo, who were born by surrogate in 2008. Martin, who split with businessman boyfriend Carlos Gonzalez Abella last year, said he would like to get married . 'For me that paper is important. I also love the romanticism behind it,' he told the Sun. 'I am single now after seven years. I meet people. I'm fi